The alarm went off. I woke up. Sort of. I snoozed the alarm and stretched. I felt warm liquid at the opening of my vagina, but it was held in by my inner labia. I had been on my period for a few days, so this should be the day it takes off. My usual […]
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AskTrish: Man Inquires If Menopause Means the End of Sex for Women
*NOTE*: This question was asked of me on a yoga forum. I have included my original response as well as some extra info here. Trish, Is menopause the wilting stage for women? HELL NO!!!!! Menopause is a WONDERFUL time for women sexually! It’s the first time in a woman’s life that she can have true […]
DailyOJ 03-01-13, Part 2: New Toy Brings a Clear Vision
Copyright 2013 by Trish Causey. All Rights Reserved. *Read Part 1.* The fourth time with the new toy was a mixed, weird, confusing experience. Suffice it to say, this guy requires lube — lots of lube. I had already done a blended orgasm with my new glass toy (more on that later) to prime my […]
DailyOJ 01-26-13, Part 1: Morning Arousal & Orgasm Diet Regimen
This morning, I awoke knowing that I’d been dreaming, with a vague recollection of the dream, who was there, and that it didn’t seem to be a dream I needed to remember. I started to roll over from my side to my back. As I did, my legs opened up, and I instantly felt the […]
Penis Size: Measuring Up to Your Woman’s Sex Toy
Let’s dispel any “polite society” myths right now. Women have sex toys. We love them. Straight and bisexual women love penises, too. While most men know how long they are, a lot of men don’t seem to know how wide they are. This is a shame since most women prefer width over length. Many men […]
DailyOJ 10-19-12 Part 2: Integration of Clitoral Orgasms & Disappointment
* Read Part 1 here. * Also, this September, I noticed how my clitoral orgasms are not as explosive and separate from my vaginal/prostate orgasms as they used to be. Instead of an obvious explosion, that typifies the clit orgasm, my clitoral orgasms have become much fuller, more like full-body expansion up my torso and […]
DailyOJ 09-10-12: Sick & Tired, Unexpected Emotion, & Energy
As I laid down to start the session, I wondered if I’d be able to do it. I had come down with something that felt like a cold. I felt weak and tired. My nose had alternated between runny and/or stuffy, and I was coughing. I realized then that this cold must have been starting […]
DailyOJ 07-29-12: Opening the Vagina for Sex
As my fingertips parted the opening of my vagina for the entry of the afternoon tampon, I had a sudden flashback to the days when I had sex — with that asshole husband of mine. So I’m slightly hormonal right now. I could really use a hug — and my pizza — if the fucking […]
OpEd: Fish Oil, Omega-3, & ‘The Orgasm Diet’
No woman wants to discuss fish when talking about the inner workings of the vagina. The crude schoolyard jokes come more easily than orgasms. Most women have heard about the book The Orgasmic Diet: A Revolutionary Plan to Lift Your Libido and Bring You to Orgasm by Marrena Lindberg, but I had never read it. […]
Anatomy: The Female Prostate of Myth and Legend
The female prostate is a complex subject confounded by myth, male-dominated science, and male misconceptions of female anatomy and sexuality. The female prostate is a gland of tissue that surrounds the women’s urethra, the tube that goes from the bladder to the opening of the body in the groin region so a woman can urinate. […]