Dear Trish, I’ve been married for almost 15 years. Before I got married, I used to have orgasms without a problem during intercourse, and I was very active and sexual woman. Now, AFTER 15 years, we have sex like every three or four months and worse, without orgasms… well, once a year if I’m really […]
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DailyOJ 01-26-13, Part 2: The Fear of Intimacy
* Read Part 1 * Today was a great day. So I was a bit surprised by the slight emotional breakdown I just experienced. It wasn’t caused by my intactivism on Twitter (explaining the horrors of both male circumcision and female genital cutting), or the raucous festivities happening just outside my apartment from the day […]
AskTrish: Man Asks About the Allure & Sexual Myths of Redheads
Trish, what is it about redheaded women that truly makes them stand out compared to other women? Are they harder to love/please or is that just a myth? Do people get burned easily by such a warm personality and fiery passion? Or is that just a myth. What are things that people need to understand […]
AskTrish: Man Ponders Women’s Perspective of an Open, Polyamorous Relationship
Dear Trish, I’m a 50 year-old straight (but bi-curious) male. I have been with my female partner for 5 years now and have been living with her for 4 years. I am in school 300 miles away. The past few months, while I have been here, I have talked to her about exploring her own […]
DailyOJ 09-29-12: My 40th Birthday & First Ever Nude Photoshoot
Just a year ago, I dreaded the idea of turning 40. Just as a decade ago, I dreaded turning 30. Turning 30 was hard, perhaps because I was still in the crux of a life I didn’t want, trying to make sense of that life, and wanting desperately to get back to being true to […]
DailyOJ 08-17-12, Part 2: Lying Broken in Pieces As I Heal
Copyright 2012 by Trish Causey. * Read Part 1 here! * Glad to have movement and feeling in my back again after the excruciating pain that started a week ago, I was really looking forward to resuming my orgasmic awakening routine. After all, my big, loud O’s had been on lock-down almost all summer while […]
Comment 08-06-12: ‘Aroused Woman’ vs. ’50 Shades of Grey’
Here in my corner of the women’s sexuality universe, I have dabbled in writing erotica on the side of all that I do here on the blog posts (and my day job as a freelance writer, penning blog posts, cover stories, and featured articles about the Broadway theatre scene). I started a couple of chapters […]
Comment 07-29-12: Being Honest About Opening the Vagina for Sex
While some of my writing is a little out there in topic and content, some of my posts are straight up annoyance and even anger based on personal experiences. When I write these posts, I never know if someone out there can actually relate — am I the only woman who’s ever experienced __________________ — […]
DailyOJ 08-08-12, Part 2: Back on the Path
Copyright 2012 by Trish Causey. * Read Part 1 here. * I originally got into Tantra in 2000-ish. Life in a bad marriage was way too stressful, and I never actually did a true Tantrik practice. I studied yoga (several kinds of yoga) and even became certified in yoga (and Pilates). I taught Pilates/Yoga and […]
DailyOJ 01-17-12: Yin & Lying Broken
January 17, 2012 I think I may have found something that can help me incorporate Yin, and transcend my generally negative perception of Yin as weak, victimized, and subservient. A friend posted a link to this article on Facebook, so I read it, and it make a lot of sense to me — maybe because […]
