How do you define porn? What is erotica to you? Both are protected by the First Amendment, but for me, each has a different vibe — and no, I don’t mean sex toys!
Listen to my radio broadcast at BlogTalkRadio.com/Aroused on this very topic of “Porn vs. Erotica Sex,” then come back here and leave a comment below!
The p0rn of the 1970’s and 1980’s made caricatures out of the women as hyperorgasmic nyphomaniacs with the men serving no purpose other than just being an erection that jackhammered vaginas.
So what do you think of porn’s ….
- fake breasts
- skewed body image
- fake orgasms
- disrespect of women and women’s real sexuality
- disrespect of men’s sexuality
- men ejaculating on a woman’s face
- female ejaculation falsely represented by urination
- several men gang-banging one woman
- cheezy music and bad lighting…
Women have since taken the lead in writing, directing, and producing sex on film. This, plus the rise of amateur vids distributed via the internet, has changed how people want to see their sex.
As I say all the time on Twitter: The human body is beautiful. Sex is beautiful. Orgasm is natural. Reject dogma (and bad p0rn) that shames you into thinking otherwise. 🙂
trish
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DailyOJ: ALLOWING AND RECEIVING
So porn is just the act with no feelings and erotica is the act with emotions?
I think the women of porn get into it for the money.
Some make half milliona a year, the men average about 40 grand a year.
There are certain body parts I like on a woman , breasts ,real or fake turn me on.
Watching the way they move when the woman moves.
As far as watching a porno , I find watching someone else having sex ,just doesn’t do it for me.
As for women’s sexuality ,we have to get over this puritain attitude, women that like sex are bad.
The taboo of sex before marriage is a anachronism ,
The worst is the”value ” placed on virginity , not the man , the woman!
That smacks of ownership.
Soft core is ok , it shows the woman as an independent smart woman that happens to like sex.
Of course she is a playboy model, that is the fantasy part.
Don’t care about fake breasts.
Real women have curves. That’s what makes a woman.
Fake orgams suck. Have to be honest for the best sex possible.
Always need to respect the woman and be nonjudgemental about her sexuality
Some woman like to have the guy cum on her face. Some don’t. She’s the one receiving so it’s her decision
Female ejacualtion rules. So cool to be down there when that happens.
If a woman wants multiple partners at the same time, so be it. Same with a guy.
Cheezy music and lighting? Who cares?