Hi Trish: Happy birthday. I hope that your photo shoot was a great experience. My “ask” is: Why do you find men attractive and arousing? I’m a guy. I think/feel that the female form, in ALL of its variants, is the most exquisite vision that the known Universe has yet conjured up. But guys, with perhaps the rare exception that is akin to a sculpted Greek god, is borderline ugly – at best. I kind of feel sorry for women. Men (straight ones anyway) get women. They get us.
First, thank you for the birthday wishes!! 🙂
Second, the photoshoot was an interesting experience for various reasons, but overall, I’m so glad I did it.
Third, are you crazy??!!! Men are NOT ugly. 🙂 Men are beautiful!!! As each man has personal preferences for the women to whom he is attracted, women like different things in men. It can be his eyes, his voice, his sense of humour…
I’ll be honest, I’m not into the hairy thang, but that’s because I have sensitive skin. My ex wears a goatee, and I stopped kissing him because I got tired of my chin itching and being rashy. (And he’s an asshole, but that’s another story.) Some women LOVE a hairy chest and hairy other parts. Some women like beefy guys, while others prefer the lean, athletic type. Since you’re not in to dudes, you just don’t understand the appeal of a muscle-bound guy who gives back-cracking hugs. 🙂
For the record, intelligence, humility, and compassion rank at the top of my personal list of what I’m looking for in a man (along with excellent musicianship, an aversion to Star Wars, and a fat, medium-length penis).
So there’s a physical attraction, an emotional attraction, and an intellectual attraction. Women tend to fall in love with the person the man is or the person the woman thinks the man can be (which is ridiculous). As a friend once told me, every person has something beautiful about him or her. While men can be frustrating, (straight) women love men. Flaws and all. And thankfully, (straight) men love us, too, flaws and all.
But why do I find men attractive and arousing? Let me see… I love men. I feel electricity surge through my body when I’m around men. I’ve always gotten along with men better than I do with women. I come alive around men. I feel like I’m floating on air around men. My heart races, my vagina throbs around men. I love the strength of men, the competitive nature of men (mostly), the boyish charm of men. I even love the occasional arrogance of men because I can chop it down with one purposeful quip. The feel of being skin to skin with someone who’s body is different from my own ~ I love it.
And I really love penis… and balls… and the male perineum… Hence, why I’m not a lesbian. 🙂
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