November 23, 2011

(* In response to a comment by a woman who was “fascinated by your cervix positioning depending on your cycle, & your awareness of it.”  She also asked if I’m aware when my ovaries release an egg. *)

Years and years ago, I got in the habit of doing a general vaginal check every night in the shower… after all, I can’t tell a guy what’s going on in there and what’s what if I don’t know, right?  So in the shower every night, I wash off and shave my outer labia and mons veneris.  I insert a clean finger (usually middle) and circle the inside a few times.  I can feel whether the cervix is high or low or Goldilocks.  I can check the texture of the vaginal walls, prostate, perineal sponge, etc., for any changes in texture.  And I check the color, opacity, and odor (none, thanks!) of my fluids / discharge. This is of course, before washing further south and behind — whether in the shower or in bed, the best practice is front to back.

Over time, I noticed the difference in my cervix at different times of the month.  An interesting thing I saw in a nerd TV show (some Discovery show), was an MRI or CT scan of a woman during orgasm (so it was a 2-D side-view).  The video showed that the cervix dips down to “scoop up” would-be semen to help it get to the uterus.  So with knowing what my cervix feels like inside, I’ve been able to associate feelings during stimulation and orgasm during the month.  Nipple stimulation can give me a cervical orgasm in about 30 seconds, but in the days leading up to my period with the lowered cervix, it’s more like 5 seconds and the cervical O’s are even stronger.

The cervical orgasm is a new one for me — literally only a few months — but it’s awesome!  My back arches uncontrollably, my legs kick out then come up to fetal position, but my arms stretch up and my hands splay out.  And the energy feels like it’s inside and rises up, all Kundalini-like. Clitoral orgasms feel very localized to the clit, almost to the outside of my body, and of course vaginal O’s are all interior with full-body waves of heat.

I’m trying to allow the cervical orgasm first, as a warm-up before direct genital stimulation, to integrate all the different sensations of the different kinds of orgasms — particularly the new power button of the female prostate. But sometimes it just feels like there aren’t enough hands in the room!  (Because it’s just me!)  I miss the theatre orgies of my youth, darn it.  Plenty of hands around when you need ’em.

Just to sound crazy, yes, there have been several times when I felt a “pinch” in the area of one of my ovaries, but I cannot testify that it was indeed me dropping eggs like a hen. However, by doing the nightly vaginal “howdy-do” in the shower, I have noticed several times that in the midst of clear discharge a small lump of translucent, spherical/elliptical …
something?… about a millimeter or two in diameter that made me say, “OMG, that’s an egg?!” … But again, no empirical proof.

Of course, these are just my experiences and observations. These statements have not been approved by the FDA, and your mileage may vary.

Aroused and journaling,
trish

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